How can the defeated win?

Success has secrets and reasons that Walter Wynn, the famous British psychiatrist and human development expert, is trying to discover in this book.
The standards of success differ from one person to another, depending on the difference in character, the multiplicity of hopes or the extent of ambition, and according to the circumstances surrounding the person, the environment in which he lives, the area of ​​his contact with people, his moral qualities, the obstacles that confront him, the means of overcoming them, and the extent and type of his culture... All of these are factors that have a role. It has a far-reaching impact in assessing the extent of an individual's success, judging his efforts, his struggle, and the amount of his struggle.
That is, the measures of success are relative, but in general, success is achieving your dreams, making the best use of your energies, learning from the past and benefiting from it, or it is the result of repeated failure, or overcoming negative habits, it is discovering that, and success does not come. By a stroke of luck, success is caused by a mature mind, relentless determination, and many experiences of failure and success.